Our Imago (Latin for “Image”) is our unconscious blueprint of intimate relationships. It is a template out of our awareness, yet driving who we pick and then how we operate in relationships. It makes up A LOT of the quiet and not-so-quiet “shoulds” we have about partnership. I “should” think/feel/act this way; you “should” think/feel/act […]

WHY do we have the same conversation over and over with our intimate partner in an attempt to gain closeness and understanding, yet leave feeling exhausted and further apart? HOW is it that even though we go to therapy, listen to the podcast, and decode our maladaptive coping mechanisms from childhood, we still end up […]

I have always felt extremely fortunate that I figured out what I wanted to do as a career very early in life……11th grade to be exact.  Mr. Foley’s psychology class to be more exact.  It was only a one semester elective, but by the time I got past the first chapter I was hooked. The […]